I Applied Because Sex with Men Hasn’t Felt Satisfying Lately! Rim, 33 years old

Whenever I meet women who come to LIPS for a sensual therapy session,
I always make sure to ask them “What made you decide to apply now?”

People tend to assume that most women apply immediately because their worries are serious and urgent.
But in reality, the timing varies a lot from person to person.

Women who are cautious usually spend plenty of time debating whether they should apply.
On the other hand, women who act on impulse often make a quick, decisive application.

Personally, I feel that the longer you hesitate, the longer you stay stuck with the same worries—and that’s a waste of your time and your life overall.

In any case, the timing really reflects a woman’s personality,
so the reasons and decision-making processes differ widely.

Some women even say:

And surprisingly, this type of woman is not rare at all.

Most of them end up enjoying their session to the fullest,
and the concerns they casually looked up before discovering LIPS
often disappear effortlessly.

Rim, the woman who kindly agreed to have her experience featured in this article,
is exactly that type of woman.

Why Rim Decided to Apply

Even women who once reached deep vaginal orgasms
sometimes find themselves feeling like a different person,
with their sensitivity suddenly weakened.

Some even say:

It’s not rare at all.

The cause differs from woman to woman—
sometimes psychological, sometimes physical.

But in most cases, it’s simply a matter of:

Regaining something that temporarily faded.

With that mindset alone, things often go smoothly.

This is why, in cases like Rim’s,
vaginal sensitivity development becomes the foundation of the session.

In Rim’s case,
her quick, decisive application clearly showed both curiosity and sexual appetite—
so I had no major concerns.

First, I began by checking:

We started the session while keeping that in mind.

Regaining Lost Pleasure Through Vaginal Erogenous Zone Stimulation

Curiosity and natural sexual appetite
are extremely helpful during a LIPS session.

In Rim’s case,
she had more than enough of both—
and at this point she was already soaking wet.

Even though we hadn’t done much yet,
her level of arousal kept increasing.

She said this while already on the verge of climax.

You can see exactly what this scene looked like
in the video recorded with her cooperation below.

Video: Rim Regaining Lost Pleasure Through Vaginal Sensitivity Development

Rim also mentions this in her later testimonial video:

For her issue—
“Sex hasn’t felt as good lately”—
the true root may have been:

“I lost track of where I feel pleasure.”

To understand your own body,
it’s essential to identify the exact spot of your vaginal erogenous zone
and experience the level of pleasure it produces.

This is what vaginal sensitivity development is for.

The pleasure created through this process
often boosts the overall pleasure throughout the entire body.

According to clinical findings, vaginal stimulation activates autonomic and central nervous system pathways that enhance arousal and amplify overall bodily pleasure.¹

Rim was no exception—
she even said:

Once she could clearly feel the rise in full-body pleasure,
we moved on to the next stage.

Rim Reaches Orgasm, Unable to Withstand the Pleasure of a Clitoral Suction-Type Toy

We used a toy that allows precise adjustment of the angle
so the suction head stays on the clitoris
while the shaft stimulates her vaginal erogenous zone at the exact pinpoint location.

Because Rim had just re-discovered
the spot and intensity of her internal pleasure,
this timing was absolutely perfect.

By fixing the suction cup onto her clitoris,
the direct “being sucked” sensation immediately hit her.

This kind of pleasure is something vibrators cannot replicate—
a completely new type of stimulation
that feels shockingly fresh,even revolutionary.

The moment I turned on the clitoral suction toy,
Rim reacted instantly to the simultaneous:

It was obvious she was being overwhelmed
by a level of pleasure she had never felt before.

As the stimulation continued:

She screamed, her body jolting sharply,
and then breathlessly confessed:

You can watch the entire scene
in the video recorded below.

Video: Rim Overwhelmed by the Pleasure of the “Suction Toy” and Reaching Orgasm

As you can see,
Rim had already climaxed during the foreplay stage—
so it seemed that she had successfully regained her sense of pleasure.

Clinical research indicates that clitoral stimulation during foreplay significantly contributes to higher sexual satisfaction and enhances subsequent sexual responses.²

However, her original reason for applying was:

“Recently, sex itself hasn’t felt satisfying.”

Meaning:

Even if she could orgasm during foreplay,
we still didn’t know whether
“sex itself feels good again.”

So the next step was to confirm
whether she could genuinely feel good during intercourse.

Rim Enjoys Sex After Regaining Pleasure Beyond Her Original Level

Because her vaginal erogenous zone was fully awakened,
her overall sensitivity was already elevated—
so there was no reason
that sex itself would feel dull or unsatisfying anymore.

Once excitement built on top of that,
her pleasure naturally increased even further.

Rim had both curiosity and latent sexual desire for this session,
so once she relaxed and let herself open up,
her enthusiasm and emotional expression
became beautifully active.

Saying that,
she was completely riding the waves of pleasure.

At this stage,
there was no doubt at all—
she had fully remembered
what genuine pleasure feels like.

You can see everything up to this point
exactly as it happened
in the video recorded below.

Video: Rim Immersed in Pleasure and Fully Enjoying Sex

Before the session,
Rim’s mindset wasn’t just:

“I want someone to help me regain pleasure.”

It was also:

“I want to regain my pleasure through this experience!”

In other words,
she wasn’t relying on someone else completely—
she was facing her concern with a forward, proactive attitude.

That mindset itself
prepared her body and mind for the session,
and as a result,
she ended up gaining something truly valuable from the experience.

One of the major reasons Rim was able to feel such strong pleasure again
was her rediscovery of:

“This is the spot that feels good!”

—her precise vaginal erogenous zone.

In the testimonial video that follows,
she explains this extremely important point
using a very easy-to-understand comparison
involving muscle training.

Because the explanation comes from a woman’s perspective,
I think many readers will find it even more relatable
than if I explained it myself.

As always, I’ve added subtitles
so the video can be watched even with the sound off.

Please make sure to watch Rim’s testimonial below—
I believe it will be very helpful for many women.

Rim’s Feedback After the Session

Thank you so much for today.
I honestly can’t believe
that I was able to feel this good again,
especially after recently feeling so unsatisfied
during sex with men.

And… I ended up getting greedy for more pleasure, haha.

Not only did I regain the pleasure I had lost,
but I also felt so many new sensations
that I had never experienced before.
It really surprised me!

I really hope this helps other women
regain their pleasure too, haha.
But anyway—
thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Lips welcomes women who enjoy sex or want to have fun with sex while experiencing continuous orgasms.

Foreign women living in Japan for work or for sightseeing can also apply from the page below.

 

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References

1. Physiological changes in female genital sensation during sexual stimulation ↩︎
2. Clitorally Stimulated Orgasms Are Associated With Better Control of Sexual Desire, and Not Associated With Depression or Anxiety, Compared With Vaginally Stimulated Orgasms ↩︎

Notes

1・Clinical research shows that vaginal stimulation can activate both peripheral and central nervous system responses, increasing blood flow and heightening arousal, which in turn enhances overall bodily pleasure.

2・his explanation is based on research conducted by Dr. Geoffrey Miller from the University of New Mexico and Dr. Nicole Prause, a specialist in sexual psychophysiology, neuroscience, and psychology at the University of California.
In their study, 88 women aged 18 to 53 were assessed to compare orgasms produced by clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation, examining how each related to sexual self-regulation, overall sexual satisfaction, and the presence of depression or anxiety. Their findings reinforce the widely recognized importance of clitoral-induced orgasms for women.